Everything you wrote here about intersex people has been my experience with evangelicals and many conservative Christian groups. I can still remember when someone said to me, “Well, what about intersex people?” That was a turning point in my understanding. I couldn’t erase people and facts, and my all-or-nothing thinking wouldn’t let me continue with my church beliefs about identity, gender, and sexuality. I guess I can call that a come to Jesus moment… there are so many ways people erase and deny people.