Great job! Wow, I really appreciate your additions to the subject and how you expanded and connected. You know, I think this expectation, tactic, and sentiment is quite common in overt and subtle ways. Do you remember when former First Lady, Barbara Bush said Hurricane Katrina evacuees and survivors were “better off” and things were “working quite well for them?” I hear her words as an expectation of gratitude and a demand for gratitude. It suppresses. It silences. It deflects and ducks white guilt. It’s an attempt to prevent someone’s ability to address issues. There’s a lot in this. Thanks for writing about it.