Hi alto! I agree. I tried to highlight those points in the piece. I was disturbed because I underestimated my potential to have that bias as a gay man. After taking the test, I saw how it plays out in my relationship. I’m hesitant toward receptive roles. I resent household chores like cooking. I’m uneasy with public affection initiated with me — an arm around me the way a man puts his arm around a woman. It was eye-opening and I expect it to change. Thanks for sharing your experience with the tests!