Hi Sherry Kappel. (I’m smiling as I write this because I know we share the Lee!) So, it’s hard to write this but I think my mom reacted out of disgust rather than dismay. Because her comments were about my mannerisms, religion, and the sex acts. And her mom made it worse because grandma thought it should be easy for my mom, since Grandma had a trans child. Grandmas can be tricky. Ha.