Kimberly McColl, wow! 100% agree with everything you said! I am delighted you read this post, and I am grateful for your response.

I highlighted so much of what you said. Excellent points.

Particularly, what you said about the surprise when a wealthy looking white person doesn’t tip as expected.

The dining experience is so basic and so ordinary. And yet, it is so loaded. Thanks again for sharing in this dialogue. -Sam